The Stress Doc's Q & A
Work Stress
(Eds. Note: This column was originally written for WorkforceOnline.)
1) Managing the Quietly Surly and Passive-Aggressive Employee
Q. We have an employee that appears to be disgruntled. As a result, she is
creating a hostile work environment for coworkers. For example, she won't speak
to anyone, she slings boxes across the floor, and when someone asks her a
question she is purposefully vague. This doesn't seem to really violate any
policy, but it is really affecting morale of coworkers. How should I proceed?
A. What comes to mind when you read the phrase, "hostile work
environment?": Direct verbal threats of violence, deep gouges in the hood
of a car parked in the employee parking lot; sexually harassing or personally
invasive behavior from staring at an employee in his cubicle (or scratching
on the cubicle wall or rummaging through an employees waste basket) to
following a person around the workfloor? What about pulling up XXX or KKK web
sites for public display?
Actually, as you note, a hostile work environment can be created by a
disgruntled coworker, one who, "wont speak to anyone, (who) slings boxes
across he floor (or) when someone asks her a question is purposefully
vague."
There are two serious dysfunctions in this latter scenario: First, this kind
of passive-aggressive and overtly aggressive pattern is not just anxiety
provoking for others, but may have an intimidating intent or effect. Will this
individual ratchet up the hostility and become globally explosive or, perhaps,
start focusing on a specific target? Are problems with alcohol or drugs, an
underlying or unrecognized depression or a burnout state fueling the hostility
fires? A person displaying problematic behavior and emotional conflicts or a
personality disorder fairly quickly becomes a morale and productivity tumor in
an avoidance-based operational system.
Second, when employees believe management or company policy will not or
cannot address, set limits or discipline such provocative and dysfunctional
behavior the tumor turns malignant. (Alas, management has been known to overlook
or deny the interpersonal actions and consequences of a high producer.) Various
organ systems are invariably compromised and damaged. Employees, at minimum, are
distracted; colleagues fear and anger levels rise. The possibility of
retaliation and/or mutual escalation increases. Gossip and group cliques feed,
if not scavenge, on this ambient tension. Employees steadily lose confidence in
and respect for a "know nothing/do nothing" management structure. And
morale, a belief in capable leadership and productivity are highly
interdependent.
Stress Docs Prescription
What about some strategies for disarming the hostile employee? As you didn't
specifically indicate your role or relationship with regard to this problematic
individual, I will take a multifaceted approach. Consider these five strategic
interventions:
1. Peer Confrontation. Because of the somewhat unpredictable nature of
the problem employee, I encourage the work team to confront the supervisor not
the troubled and/or troublesome colleague. The supervisor must hear how people
are being adversely affected by this persons behavior. If the supervisor does
not expeditiously address this problem, the group should approach the next level
of authority or schedule an appointment with Human Resources.
Theres a guerrilla tactic if management is unresponsive: people from the
work team or department schedule individual appointments with the Employee
Assistance Program (EAP) Counselor. Not only can the EAP professional be a work
team advocate in this stressful scenario, but eventually someone high up will
notice all the "lost company time." (More on the EAP option in 5.)
2. Clear and Firm Policy. Management and Human Relations need to design a
practices and procedures policy on what constitutes a hostile work environment,
including intervention and prevention steps. For example, continuously slinging
boxes across a floor can readily be assessed as an unsafe work practice. Any
warehouse in which Ive either worked or consulted would not tolerate such
unprofessional and potentially hazardous behavior.
3. Team Performance Evaluation. In performance evaluations, more and more
organizations are including the category of team player, that is, does the
employee demonstrate a capacity for collaboration, cooperation and coordination
with direct colleagues, personnel in other task-related departments, matrix team
members, etc.? So being purposefully vague or not speaking to anyone, especially
if one is withholding or manipulating information that others need for doing
their job effectively and safely needs to be a vital component of a formal job
evaluation. This performance component should be formally included in a job
description as well.
4. Supervisor-Hostile Employee Relationship. Clearly, a supervisor needs
to have a face-to-face meeting with the hostile employee. The supervisor must
have documentation which specifically enumerates the professional disruptive
behavior. In addition, the supervisor needs to inquire how the employee
perceives her general and specific work floor/work team behavior. And the
disgruntled employee needs to be confronted with the specific concerns
identified by colleagues. (Of course, confidentiality for all employees needs to
be respected.) At some point, a team meeting with all parties present is
advisable. This meeting may require a professional facilitator.
Returning to the one-on-one, the supervisor might usefully inquire whether
there is something in the work environment, including work relationships, that
is troubling or frustrating this employee. With a person not overly defensive,
one capable of hearing the supervisors feedback, this meeting might become a
wake up call. Sometimes, a disciplinary letter in an employees file or losing
a couple of days pay, especially if the problem persists after a first
discussion of the problem, can be a reality check. (Remember, unless the level
of behavior is significantly destructive, maximum disciplinary action should not
be imposed if the supervisor and employee have not had a previous formal
discussion of the problem behavior.)
The supervisor and problematic employee may now be able to establish a
performance improvement plan. Goals, action items and timelines will need to be
monitored on a regular, perhaps weekly, basis at first. If really fortunate,
this person may even accept a referral for EAP counseling. I've also known
supervisors who've worked with a shop steward or union representative to help
calm and modify the behavior of a disgruntled employee. However, if the problem
has been fairly chronic and defenses are well-fortified or if the problem has a
definite biochemical component (e.g., clinical depression) then rational
discussion and, even, traditional supervisory discipline may not be sufficient.
And, of course, if alcohol or drug abuse is part of the diagnostic picture then
medical treatment along with cognitive-behavioral intervention becomes critical.
5. Critical Intervention and Support. Especially with an employee
demonstrating a pattern of hostile behavior, a supervisor may need outside
assistance in dealing with such a problematic individual. For example, one
recent intervention that helped turn around a hostile employee was my
facilitating a confrontation between this employee and his supervisor. Larger
reorganzation and dysfunctional leadership issues at higher levels had set the
stage for a hazardous work climate. The supervisor intially felt he was not
getting any upper management support in his attempts to set limits on and
discipline the hostile employee. Angry and dejected, the supervisor eventually
gave up confronting this employee's disruptive behavior. This only exacerbated
the employee's acting out patterns. A new division leader committed to tackling
workplace morale plus an intensive individual and team intervention process put
the brakes on a vicious work environment/behavior cycle.
Another vital conflict resolution step was holding a group meeting with the
hostile employee, the supervisor, the new division head and the other team
members. At first, I encouraged the team members to discuss the impact of the
supervisor's detaching from his supervisory role. (I knew confronting the
supervisor would be less threatening than tackling the hostile employee.) Still
feeling mostly safe, these peers next spoke of their upset or discomfort with
the hostile employees angry outbursts and bullying behavior. (The angry
employee often is in denial about how aversive his behavior is to others. And,
of course, the problem employee frequently sees his or her acting out as
justified or provoked by others.)
The moral: a supervisor should strongly consider asking for support from a
Critical Intervention Specialist (my motto: "Have Stress? Will
Travel!") or an EAP Counselor. While supervisors are usually aware of the
EAP referral option for a problematic employee, the supervisor frequently
overlooks the EAP option as a coaching resource for him-or herself. Whether an
intervention consultant or an EAP specialist, collaboration with a professional
trained in dealing with hostile personnel and work scenarios will help the
supervisor feel less isolated and vulnerable. Nothing like having good backup
when tackling a hostile situation.
Of course, depending on the nature of the hostile behavior, internal security
may need to be placed on alert (or brought in for consultation) if the employee
becomes increasingly agitated during an intervention/discipline meeting or, for
example, if he or she refuses to leave or keep off the work premises if
instructed to do so.
Closing Summary
Five strategic interventions have been highlighted: 1) Peer Confrontation, 2)
Policy Clarification, 3) Team Performance Evaluation, 4) Supervisor-Employee
Relationship, and 5) Critical Intervention and Support.
By building these steps into the company's operational philosophy, policies
and practices, upper management will definitely strengthen organizational
leadership, individual and team productivity and workplace safety and morale.
And the system as an interdependent whole will finally be ready to
Practice
Safe Stress!
